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Saturday, January 28, 2012

The State of Howard Essay Submission


Everyone knows someone who has been affected by the downturn in the global economy. For me it was my parents. Both of them were laid off within three months of each other, leaving my family in a time of despair. For five months both of my parents were in constant search of new jobs. I’ve heard countless stories about how my dad would go in to interview for a position and the next prospective candidate was a recent college graduate. This constant state of unemployment and underemployment begs the question, “What are the benefits of having a college degree?”  With the constant rise of tuition and the national unemployment rate lingering in near double digit numbers one could say that things look very grim. But, for America to grow and continue its’ dominance as the best nation in the world we must continue to educate our citizens past the post secondary level. Our citizens need to continue to complete college and technical training for the betterment of themselves and for the advancement of our communities and nation.  I believe the only way to generate continued enrollment in these higher learning institutions is through community awareness.
            As a young child one learns about the idyllic “great jobs”; physicians, attorneys, CEO’s, nurses, politicians, teachers, and etc. You are constantly being told to “stay in school and go to college” so that you your career choices are unlimited and that your future would not be determined by becoming a professional retail cashier, or a burger flipping extraordinaire in a dead-end minimal wage job. This message was delivered through media, in families and throughout our 12 years of education. The message of continued education must be strengthened and continued if we want an educated, influential and powerful nation.
One key to raising the enrollment rates is educating both children and parents. Colleges should hold informational sessions, geared toward elementary age school children and their families. It is imperative that we let both the child and the parent know that college doesn’t have to be placed on hold because of financial troubles. We have to inform our community that a college degree isn’t a plus on a resume anymore, for most jobs it’s a requirement. It is our job to let parents know how to properly save for college and let them know that even though their child is in elementary school there are things that they need to be doing now to give their child a competitive edge when it is time to apply for scholarships. If you wait until the child is in high school, or even middle school it is often too late. We have to inform our community while the children are young; so that when they’re of age they are prepared to go on to great institutions such as Howard University.
            At the Mecca, Howard University, students are placed through a real world simulation for four years. Required courses such as English and Speech teach students vital job requirements such as writing and effective communication skills. Every aspect of Howard prepares you for your bright future. The college experience, and preparation for life, is more than a G.P.A.; it is the sum total of life lessons learned in and out of the classroom. It is common knowledge that every institution of higher learning changes you, even after one brief semester, but, it is my strong belief that the Mecca challenges you to become more competitive, resourceful, knowledgeable, and successful to better prepare you for real life. As a freshman, I am in the midst of a “Job Simulation”
            The “Job Simulation” is the combination of both my classes and the organizations that I have become involved in. Last semester I had the honor to take “Intro to Mass Communication”. The class opened my eyes to life and history of the Media Industry. It showed me that my future dreams are going to be hard, but I can accomplish them with hard work and dedication. Another class that has already molded me into a more determined individual was English. I wrote several essays for my professor and despite the large amounts of efforts that I was putting into the course I couldn’t get the “A” that I craved. Even though I ended up with a “B” in the class I learned more from the “B” than I could an “easy A.” That class taught me that even though I’m not in the real world yet, I have to treat my classes like a job. I have to take this time in school seriously, build relationships with my professors, and learn from them. The organizations I am proud to be a part of taught me that if you have strong passion for something your job is actually play time. As a Public Relations Student Society of America (PRSSA) member I have learned many new PR techniques that I wouldn’t be exposed to until junior year according to my graduation scheme. I also have learned the value of networking. Since “no one person is an island” I have connected with many upperclassmen that are in the internships that I will apply for down the road. I have learned what companies are looking for and what I can do now to better prepare my resume and myself. 
            To continue to generate enrollment I believe that we must start “recruiting” children at a young age. You are never too young to think about your future, especially in this economy where your future success is dependent on a college degree. Kayne West recently asked the question “Who will survive in America?” My answer is simply this: those who are prepared. 

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Freedom

"They did not ask to be accepted but declared themselves the Americans that perhaps few others recognized but that they had always been deep within their hearts." Isabel Wilkerson, Warmth of Other Suns.

This is the last "official" part of her book and it is inspiring. Everyone deserves freedom, despite what society wants them to believe. This is why African american's as a group are so strong. We have endured such unbelievable struggles. From slavery, to Jim Crow, to segregation, to the "equality" that we face today no other race has endured what we have. We deserve freedom just as crucial as people want us to believe that we don't.

As a group we deserve our "Forty Acres and a Mule" and it's sad that we'll never get what we deserve.

"Don't Go to Howard to Find a Man."


Since a young child we are told that we’re going to marry our College Sweetheart. Well, how about when the ratio of girls to boys is 14 girls for one boy? Do you still have that happy ending? At Howard there are nothing but thirsty girls desperately vying for the attention of at least one “man”. Let’s face it, with the ratio on their side none of them are looking for a serious relationship. Seeing a couple on campus is just as rare as seeing someone not dressed up for class; it just doesn’t happen. Howard doesn’t have the happy wedding ending where the couple gets married after graduation and living happily ever after. It’s not what you come to Howard for.

I’m not saying that I’m looking for a relationship, because I’m really not. I’m just curious, where am I supposed to meet my knight in shining armor? The chances at Howard just suck.  

Thursday, October 13, 2011

God's Grace

Let me tell you what God just did for me. Last night I was up late studying for my SOC Orientation Final that I took at 8:10 this morning. I didn't get into bed until around two this morning. With the combination of this late night, plus all the previous late nights my whole room didn't get up. We didn't even wake up when the combination of ten alarms that we have set sounded at 6:50 this morning. We slept through everything.

Then, at 7:45 God woke my roommate Keyona up. We were able to get up in time to take a quick shower, brush our teeth, and run out the door to class.

I can't stop praising him and thanking him for waking her up because we would have failed if we missed this final. I can't thank him enough for all the blessings he has bestowed on my life. God is amazing, and I wouldn't have made it this far without him. I honestly don't know what I would have done if he didn't wake Keyona up, I can't praise him enough for what he did.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Women in Society

Women have always been considered "sub-par" compared to men. During Slavery women were in the field picking cotton alongside their male counterparts. Yet, during the Great Migration women were back at the bottom of the totem pole. Some of my classmates stated that women are still in this below zero position , and personally I believe that women have more power than we are aware of. 

I believe that women are born with the gift of persuasion. Once we are out the womb we know how to phrase things to get what we want and sometimes need. Women know how to say things with such fines and eloquence that men don't have the ability to do. My father always tells me that "women think with their emotions and men think with logic". Which is why women can easily get what they need. The ability to speak how you feel in such an emotional way so that you get what you need is one that most men, don't have the brain capacity to accomplish. 

This gift that our gender has been blessed with is often not used because of the negative connotations that come with it. These connotations include 'jezebel', 'loose', and 'gold digger'. When often it is only women getting what they deserve. If a man persuades his boss to give him a raise it isn't a problem. If a women does it then she's greedy and is sleeping with the boss. Why can't the women be hardworking and be getting paid below their rightful salary?

Women should use the power of persuasion not to sleep their way to the top, but to get what they're trying to deny us of it.  

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Miss Evers' Boys

Tonight I saw the play Miss Evers' Boys in the SOLD OUT Ira Aldridge Theater. It was an AMAZING production. The actors were filled with such emotion that the crowd often butted in and answered their questions as if they were onstage. The atmosphere of opening night was amazing. The crowd was amped, the actors where hyped, and the room was packed.

The play I feel was yet another subtle hint from Howard of all the wrongs that whites have done to our race throughout history. The Government purposely let these men ride out the effects of Syphilis just to see what would happen. But, what I can't wrap my head around is the portrayal of Ms. Evers who was supposedly there to help them and look out for their well being.

I think that her actions are similar to millions around the world. Those who know something is wrong yet do nothing, then try and justify their actions later.

If something is wrong, why don't people speak up?

Friday, September 2, 2011

Lynching

Currently my english class is reading The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson which included one powerful quote by James K. Vardaman that I will never forget.

 "If it is necessary, every NEGRO in the state will be lynched."

After slavery "ended" I believe the life of the southern African American became worse. Yes, they weren't sold yet they still had no privileges or rights that even the lowest white on the totem poll had. They couldn't stand up for themselves if a white citizen spit on them and disgraced their existence. Blacks at this time were treated worse then animals. They were treated worse then the dirt beneath their feet.

What my ancestors endured has never been introduced to me. As a freshman in college I am JUST being introduced to the Great Migration and what it meant to my people. I am only beginning to learn about my past and what Negros lived though so that I can have the privileges that I do.